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03 octubre Me against the World (The song from my story)"Me Against The World" We're not gonna be Just apart of their game We're not gonna be Just the victims They're taking our dreams And they tear them apart 'til everyone's the same I've got no place to go I've got no where to run They love to watch me fall They think they know it all I'm a nightmare, a disaster That's what they always said I'm a lost cause, not a hero But I'll make it on my own I've gotta prove them wrong Me against the world It's me against the world We won't let them change How we feel in our hearts We're not gonna let them control us We won't let them shove All their thoughts in our heads And we'll never be like them I've got no place to go I've got no where to run They love to watch me fall They think they know it all I'm a nightmare, a disaster That's what they always said I'm a lost cause, not a hero But I'll make it on my own I'm gonna prove them wrong It's me against the world Me against the world Now I'm sick of this waiting So come on and take your shot You can spit all your insults But nothing you say is gonna change us You can sit there and judge me Say what you want to We'll never let you in I'm a nightmare, a disaster That's what they always said I'm a lost cause, not a hero But I'll make it on my own Me against the world I'm a nightmare, a disaster That's what they always said I'm a lost cause, not a hero But I'll make it on my own I've got to prove them wrong They'll never bring us down We'll never fall in line I'll make it on my own Me against the world 20 abril Susan Boyle Most Insperational WomanThis woman is the most heat breaking yet insperational woman to have touched my heart to date. She is 47 and admitedly never been kissed, living in a villiage with er cat in Scotland. Susan told the pannel that she has always dreamed of becoming a professional singer and as she say's" she has never been given the chance before"!
She choice this song becuase it is how she feels about her life. Susan was on Larry King last night saying she is excied to "no longer be lonely"!
To me, Susan represents all the people in the world who dream! I feel like god finally said to her " ok Susan her is your chance" and she heard him! Brave and alone she has impacted my heart and millions of others.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luRmM1J1sfg This is her video please watch it!
There was a time when men were kind When their voices were soft And their words inviting There was a time when love was blind And the world was a song And the song was exciting There was a time Then it all went wrong I dreamed a dream in time gone by When hope was high And life worth living I dreamed that love would never die I dreamed that God would be forgiving Then I was young and unafraid And dreams were made and used and wasted There was no ransom to be paid No song unsung, no wine untasted But the tigers come at night With their voices soft as thunder As they tear your hope apart And they turn your dream to shame He slept a summer by my side He filled my days with endless wonder He took my childhood in his stride But he was gone when autumn came And still I dream he'll come to me That we will live the years together But there are dreams that cannot be And there are storms we cannot weather I had a dream my life would be So different from this hell I'm living So different now from what it seemed Now life has killed the dream I dreamed. 01 abril Working Class Hero ( I want more for us all )Working Class Heroby John LennonAs soon as you're born they make you feel small They hurt you at home and they hit you at school When they've tortured and scared you for twenty odd years Keep you doped with religion and sex and TV There's room at the top they are telling you still 19 noviembre True romanticWhen we think of love songs its generally very self explanitry. Yet I found one of the most incredibly sweet songs writen by an original writer on youtube. Its something I want to share with those of you who are deeply romantics, even though its title makes one think its a joke!
07 noviembre Bye bye Bush!This is a brilliant video from one of my favorite "vloggers" Danny. The world really did come together with the US election!
28 octubre Joe the Plumber... need I say more?I can hardley wait to meet Mccains other imaginary friend "Simon", the invisible unicorn LOL !
(use Mozilla fire fox if interet explorer is not working) 15 septiembre Dating Tips (he's just not that into you)Ok so after four years of plugging this book, it about time I took the advice in it! Yes my friends, I am speaking about the best dating book titled " he's just not into you"! This book will be my new bible ... so no pressure boys but I know that we are worth it! The book is written by two talented brilliant writers from Sex and the City, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo! It takes all the confusion out of dating and makes is simple and clear with its amazingly easy to read lay out! I have decided to take the top 42 points in the book and post them up for all to read. Please ladies buy this book so you can remind yourself how "into you he should be"
 1. He is made up entirely of excuses. And the minute you stop making excuses for him, he will completely disappear from your life.
2. An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid to "ruining the friendship."
3. Don't get tricked in to asking him out! If he likes you, he''ll do the asking!
4. If you can find him,then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will!
5. Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down your phone
 6. YOU are good enough to be asked out!
7. If he is not calling you, its because you are not on his mind.
8.If he creates expectations for you, and then does not follow through on the little things, he will do the same with the big things. Be aware o this and realize he is ok with disappointing you!
9. If he is choosing not to make a simple effort that would put your mind at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings!
10. "BUSY" is another word for "asshole." "Asshole is another word for the guy your dating!
11. You deserve a fucking phone call!
12. Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them. "I don't want to be in a serious relationship" truly means " I don't want to be in a serious relationship with you" (Sorry)
13. Better then nothing is not good enough for you!
14. There is a guy out there who will want to tell everyone the he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.
15. There is NO excuse for cheating. Let me say it again. There is no excuse for cheating. Now you say it. There is no excuse for cheating.
16. Cheating gets easier every time its done. Its only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someones trust!
17. A cheater only cheats himself because he doesn't get to be with you.
18. "Doesn't want to get married" and "doesn't want to get married to me" are two very different things. Be clear which category he falls under!
19. If you don't feel like your rushing, why are you waiting around?
20. There is a guy out there who wants to marry you!
21. You cant talk your way out of a break up. Its not up for discussion. A break up is a definitive action, not a democratic one.
22. Break up sex still means your broken up.
23. Cut him off let him miss you.
24. He does not need to be reminded that you're great!
25. "Classy" doesn't "brake into his answering machine"
26. There is a great guy out there who will be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex boyfriend.
27. No answer is your answer.
28. Don't give him a chance to reject you again.
29. Let his mother yell at him. Your too busy,
30. There is no mystery if he's gone. He wasn't good enough for you.
31. He is married!
32. Unless he is all yours, he's still hers.
33. Don't be that girl!
34. Your not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready.
35. Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.
36. There is NEVER a reason to yell at someone unless they are in imminent danger.
37. You deserve to someone who is nice to you all the time. ( You have to be nice to them, too)
38. Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment.
39. You already have one asshole. You don't need another.
40. Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve.
41. Have Faith. What other choice is there?
42. REMEBER Let him ask you out. I know it sounds old school but, if a man likes a woman he, will, ask her out!
Quotes to remember ~ "Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable! He, however is the same person who broke up with you. Remember the only reason he can miss you is because he is choosing everyday, not to be with you!"
~ " A man who is really into you is going to want you all to himself. And why wouldn't he, hot stuff?"
~ "If you love someone you want to do things to make that person happy."
Your worth having a man respect and want you. You deserve a nice life. Settle for nothing less! 14 septiembre Rebecca and Jason"s WeddingI would love to get into the incredible details of this enchanting night but I am bagged! Including the plane crash while just after the wedding!
Please have a look at the photos added. I will re-post the tale tomorrow!
Night kids
08 septiembre Mas alla de todo (All by my self)Mas alla de todo (All by my self) - prologueWhat do you do,
when there's nothing to hold on to?
You hold on to nothing,
because sometimes nothing can save
you.
This beautifully written piece, speaks poetic volume about what so many of us feel every day. It simplify's the usual confusion heart ache, disappointment can bring. It was written by a fellow blogger who creates some wonderful poetry, he has a style that is deep, yet clear and easy to identify with. He is a gifted writer. Please visit his blog as I will provide the link belowe, and look for some his incredible work. My other two favorites include his June 25 2008 entry titled " Its Your Fault ( Leaders of The World) . As well as a romantic poem that disects the beauty of love with words, entry date June 16 2008, titled "True Love" http://stealthmode.spaces.live.com Please subscribe to him if you enjoy his writings as much as I enjoy them May we all find something stronger then nothing to hold on too in our lives.
12 junio ChangesChanges There are many things that I would like from life. Yet more then things I want change in the world. I enjoy nice things and see the homes friends of mine have and cars, clothes and vacations. And I would be lying to myself and you, if I said I did not want similar things. But my focus is and always has been on change. And changing the way people see the world. It really is not about changing people, but actually getting people to see the reality in front of them. I don't think any change can happen as long as we continue to choose to open our eyes and not see reality in front of us. The last time you went out how many lost souls or broken people did you notice? I am willing to almost bet you will have seen one or two...but you missed so many in front you! We tend to consider the bag lady, the bum, the junkie, the whore as the broken people or lost souls. And they can be! Have you ever took a moment to consider how many cracks it took to break them? Or how many times those souls were looking for direction before they became lost? Think of our brother and sister mother fathers neighbours friends co workers... and ourselves for a moment. All of us dealt a different hand in life, good things, bad things, tragic things, losses griefs, births everything that makes up a life time. And yet so many of us are choosing not to see the cracks . We say "its not our problem" or "what can I do"? Or we pass the blame and in our minds we are helpless to do anything. I want to scream so loud to everyone...in every country and every single corner of the earth "Say Hello"! Its as simple as that. Great changes can come from acknowledgment. Its not going to fix a broken heart, take away an addicts withdrawal, or feed a hungry family. It will remind them they are not alone that you see them. Every society has become so divided not only by borders, governments, religion and going down to being divided by social and economic status. Further more ridiculously, we are now being divided by material items and focusing on items our neighbour has, or what they do rather then who they are. These things have become so important! We are driven by the force of marketing and media to work harder then ever to be able to have the latest things. Ultimately distracting us from each other, and real human issues. I don't blame you, I want these things too. But forcing my self to be aware its been more difficult for me to loose focus on you and other's. And some times it is scary to see the heart ache in people, but if you just look past the things that make you uncomfortable like dirt or things tend to separate us. Look at the face and skin and eyes see that and see someones child someones mother or father and try to remember that is something we have in common. Then start with hello until you decide you can make a difference and only you will know how or when or for who. Acknowledge & seeing can make as big of a difference as a simple hello. If you don't believe me, I challenge you to take five minutes at any point in your day to be in one place and watch people, see how many people almost seem to float past other people with no acknowledgement. And think of how often that goes on a day , then a week and I can promise it will show you the disconnection can be part of the blame for the breakdown of human compassion. Thus creating greater problems down the road. Pls comment also this song seems great for this entry! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7fNYEQYNjtg&feature=related 10 junio Wants and NeedsHas anyone ever asked you "What do you want or need"?
This seemingly kind question often makes me feel uncomfortable. Without any thought I realise that I often have a tone of defensiveness behind my response. I very rarely admit openly what I need and want. I notice that I am not the only one to do this and it lead me to consider exactly why one would have so much difficulty in answering this.
At first my mind was bending towards the answer that we just don't know exactly what we want and need, for life, people in our lives and the future. And then as I cleared my mind I realised it so much deeper then just not being sure. And if you think about this as I explain it you may agree and find it easier to answer that question even if only to yourself.
When we acknowledge something as fact or as truth as we know it, we can no longer hide in the shadow of uncertainty. If we tell some one our wants and needs it not only opens us to vulnerability but also to the risk of disappointment. After answering this question we have two choice's.
Our fist choice, we can hope the person heard us and will help us to fulfill those needs and wants. running the risk of hurt and face the disappointment when they fail us.
The second choice is to search in ourselves and figure out a map to that self fulfillment. That also is scary cause it can mean discovering you have been in the wrong direction and need to turn around and start over.
Once we admit what we need and want, we can no longer allow ourselves to feel unfulfilled because there really is no excuse. Maybe we have to work and struggle to get to the destination our soul hunger's for. Some people don't want to put the work in, or maybe they have commitments or responsibilities to tend to first. The thing is, if we don't make our personal spirit as alive content as possible, then tell me what the point is in even doing the things we clam to be a responsibility?
Many people do not understand why I cannot do the things society requires to get ahead in the world. I know clearly why now I choose not too. It is because I am not willing to sacrifice my self, my opinions, my dreams and values for life to make enough money and have basic life that is socially acceptable and promoted by the majority of society!
I will be valued for who I am! I will value myself! The rest will follow. I will no longer answer this question with defence and shame.
Own who you are and own your happiness. The rest will fall in place. If you believe in it and in your self. We should never deny ourselves the answer to what we want and need in a backward's attempt to protects one self! 07 junio My New VlogI have decide to take my blog to Youtube and make its as honest and interactive as possible. I invite you to watch it and comment or maker your own video responses.
This vlog is not perfect but it is me 100% and I am already having a great response. So I will post my first vlog here and please follow the link for any upcoming video entries.
For future Volgs by me please follow this link http://www.youtube.com/user/Coffeegirl28 |
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