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15 septiembre Dating Tips (he's just not that into you)Ok so after four years of plugging this book, it about time I took the advice in it! Yes my friends, I am speaking about the best dating book titled " he's just not into you"! This book will be my new bible ... so no pressure boys but I know that we are worth it! The book is written by two talented brilliant writers from Sex and the City, Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo! It takes all the confusion out of dating and makes is simple and clear with its amazingly easy to read lay out! I have decided to take the top 42 points in the book and post them up for all to read. Please ladies buy this book so you can remind yourself how "into you he should be"
 1. He is made up entirely of excuses. And the minute you stop making excuses for him, he will completely disappear from your life.
2. An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid to "ruining the friendship."
3. Don't get tricked in to asking him out! If he likes you, he''ll do the asking!
4. If you can find him,then he can find you. If he wants to find you, he will!
5. Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down your phone
 6. YOU are good enough to be asked out!
7. If he is not calling you, its because you are not on his mind.
8.If he creates expectations for you, and then does not follow through on the little things, he will do the same with the big things. Be aware o this and realize he is ok with disappointing you!
9. If he is choosing not to make a simple effort that would put your mind at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings!
10. "BUSY" is another word for "asshole." "Asshole is another word for the guy your dating!
11. You deserve a fucking phone call!
12. Guys tell you how they feel even if you refuse to listen or believe them. "I don't want to be in a serious relationship" truly means " I don't want to be in a serious relationship with you" (Sorry)
13. Better then nothing is not good enough for you!
14. There is a guy out there who will want to tell everyone the he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.
15. There is NO excuse for cheating. Let me say it again. There is no excuse for cheating. Now you say it. There is no excuse for cheating.
16. Cheating gets easier every time its done. Its only hard the first time, when one feels the sting of morality and the guilt of betraying someones trust!
17. A cheater only cheats himself because he doesn't get to be with you.
18. "Doesn't want to get married" and "doesn't want to get married to me" are two very different things. Be clear which category he falls under!
19. If you don't feel like your rushing, why are you waiting around?
20. There is a guy out there who wants to marry you!
21. You cant talk your way out of a break up. Its not up for discussion. A break up is a definitive action, not a democratic one.
22. Break up sex still means your broken up.
23. Cut him off let him miss you.
24. He does not need to be reminded that you're great!
25. "Classy" doesn't "brake into his answering machine"
26. There is a great guy out there who will be really happy that you didn't get back together with your crappy ex boyfriend.
27. No answer is your answer.
28. Don't give him a chance to reject you again.
29. Let his mother yell at him. Your too busy,
30. There is no mystery if he's gone. He wasn't good enough for you.
31. He is married!
32. Unless he is all yours, he's still hers.
33. Don't be that girl!
34. Your not easily forgotten. Let him find you when he's ready.
35. Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.
36. There is NEVER a reason to yell at someone unless they are in imminent danger.
37. You deserve to someone who is nice to you all the time. ( You have to be nice to them, too)
38. Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment.
39. You already have one asshole. You don't need another.
40. Make a space in your life for the glorious things you deserve.
41. Have Faith. What other choice is there?
42. REMEBER Let him ask you out. I know it sounds old school but, if a man likes a woman he, will, ask her out!
Quotes to remember ~ "Don't be flattered that he misses you. He should miss you. You're deeply missable! He, however is the same person who broke up with you. Remember the only reason he can miss you is because he is choosing everyday, not to be with you!"
~ " A man who is really into you is going to want you all to himself. And why wouldn't he, hot stuff?"
~ "If you love someone you want to do things to make that person happy."
Your worth having a man respect and want you. You deserve a nice life. Settle for nothing less! 14 septiembre Rebecca and Jason"s WeddingI would love to get into the incredible details of this enchanting night but I am bagged! Including the plane crash while just after the wedding!
Please have a look at the photos added. I will re-post the tale tomorrow!
Night kids
08 septiembre Mas alla de todo (All by my self)Mas alla de todo (All by my self) - prologueWhat do you do,
when there's nothing to hold on to?
You hold on to nothing,
because sometimes nothing can save
you.
This beautifully written piece, speaks poetic volume about what so many of us feel every day. It simplify's the usual confusion heart ache, disappointment can bring. It was written by a fellow blogger who creates some wonderful poetry, he has a style that is deep, yet clear and easy to identify with. He is a gifted writer. Please visit his blog as I will provide the link belowe, and look for some his incredible work. My other two favorites include his June 25 2008 entry titled " Its Your Fault ( Leaders of The World) . As well as a romantic poem that disects the beauty of love with words, entry date June 16 2008, titled "True Love" http://stealthmode.spaces.live.com Please subscribe to him if you enjoy his writings as much as I enjoy them May we all find something stronger then nothing to hold on too in our lives.
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